Updated: Feb 15
Elevate 28 - A 28 Day Challenge to Intentionally Engage with God's Word
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast;
it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way;
it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing,
but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things,
believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
"A Real Love Connection"
By Ann Maire Chilton, Billy Graham Evangelistic Association
The word “love” might bring to mind a familiar phrase:
Love is patient, love is kind …
On one popular TV trivia show, the contestants couldn’t name the book of the Bible where these verses are written, but they recognized the words.
Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres …
Many have heard these verses recited in wedding ceremonies or seen them written on Valentine’s Day cards. And they are found in 1 Corinthians 13, often called the “love chapter” of the Bible.
Love never fails …
At a certain point, some might say 1 Corinthians 13 has been quoted too much, which can cause words to lose their meaning. People might think, “Yeah, yeah, ok. ‘Faith, hope and love, and the greatest of these is love.’ I know. I’ve heard it all before.” Others have heard someone say, “I love you,” but a happy ending didn’t follow. For some, the word “love” has been exhausted. That’s because if we read or speak beautiful words about love again and again, but do not do it with intention or understanding, then the words begin to sound like empty statements.
A better way to say that is, “If I speak in the languages of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal” (1 Corinthians 13:1, NIV). In fact, 1 Corinthians 13 teaches that people must connect to love, specifically the love of God, in order to live meaningful lives.
CONNECTING TO THE SOURCE
Valentine’s Day brings good news because–whether single, married, divorced, separated, or any other sort of status–people can connect to the best kind of love, God’s love. And Valentine’s Day recognizes a holiday of taking time to show affection, to bring a little more meaning into everyday actions. Instead of mentioning romance in 1 Corinthians 13, the great love chapter teaches about the love of God: agape love, everlasting love, unconditional love, unselfish love. God’s love is wide open. His love is available to any people who will yield their hearts and lives to Him.
On one popular reality TV show, a single man meets several single women. As he gets to know them a little better, he eliminates the women he is not interested in. Sounds cruel, right? It is. But it’s all done in the name of “love”–and entertainment. As the women on the show are publicly rejected, one by one, they feel awful. One woman expressed her hopelessness, saying, “If I could have opened myself up to him, I think, if he saw the real me, he would definitely reconsider.”
Another thought if she were more beautiful or charming, then he would have chosen her.
“I tried, and it just wasn’t enough,” she said. In romance, many times, heartbreak comes before lasting love.
But God does not line people up, inspect them, and then reject the ones He doesn’t like because that is not what real love does. Sometimes cultural expressions and ideas about love are so cheap that it’s almost impossible to fathom, in contrast, the wonderful extent of God’s love.
The Bible confirms this, saying, “Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known” (1 Corinthians 13:12).
God knows people very well, and He loves us. He knows the strengths and weaknesses, the secret sins and personal joys. God desires to save us from ourselves. His love gives us a second chance, and really, more chances than we deserve. Billy Graham says, “No matter what sin you have committed, no matter how dirty, shameful or terrible it may be, God loves you. You may be at the very gate of hell itself, but God loves you with an everlasting love.”
GOD IS … WHAT?
The Bible teaches that God is love.
In the language of mathematics, that means God = love. In the language of teenagers, it means that God is, like, totally all about love. In a philosophical sense, God is so wrapped up in love that He is one with love itself.
Unlike a lovesick admirer, God does not simply profess His love in words. God proves His love in action. The Bible says, “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).
Jesus Christ’s sacrifice represents the ultimate act of love because it shows God’s grace. Christ is not just a good person who did good things for people and then was willing to die for His actions. Christ died in order to bring people closer to God.
Billy Graham says, “The fact that God is love does not mean that everything is sweet, beautiful and happy and that God’s love could not possibly allow punishment for sin. God’s holiness demands that all sin be punished, but God’s love provided a plan of redemption and salvation for sinful people. God’s love provided the cross of Jesus Christ by which we can have forgiveness and cleansing.”
Besides, what good is it to die for someone if the act accomplishes nothing? Or if the motives are impure? The Bible says, “If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing” (1 Corinthians 13:3). In speaking of love, 1 Corinthians 13 challenges people to do everything out of love, specifically the kind of love that God has shown through Jesus. Love is the motive. That means loving friends, enemies, neighbors, co-workers, spouses, children, parents, and even strangers with the merciful and selfless love that comes from God.
What a great challenge! There should be a holiday that celebrates love. Oh, and there is. But while Valentine’s Day focuses, for the most part, on romantic love, people can be sure that there’s so much more to that dreaded four-letter word. There’s a lifetime of days to connect to God, the Source of love, who teaches us, by example, to love with patience, faith, generosity, wisdom, and grace.
Continuing the lifelong work of Billy Graham, the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association exists to support and extend the evangelistic calling and ministry of Franklin Graham by proclaiming the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ to all we can by every effective means available to us and by equipping the church and others to do the same.
REFLECT & RESPOND
Gabriel’s Playlist is a Why Not Charleston mission project
The purpose of this project is to bring God’s message through music. Gabriel’s Playlist is not a for profit song provider. It is a FREE music mission that will provide favorite song lists by theme including interactive polling, comments and sharing options for members.
The following list includes Gabriel’s favorites that bring God’s message of HAVING CONFIDENCE.
Download the following titles using Apple Music, Spotify, or any preferred music provider platform.
Enjoy watching videos with the links below. (Parent Preview Recommended)
Made to Love – Toby Mac : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFJ5qCmvPkY
Live Like That - Sidewalk Prophets - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r1lLYKdMLU
Love Never Fails – Brandon Heath - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8nQy-aP_Koo
Proof of Your Love – For King and Country: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OgqYYk-0wDs
Parachute – Train: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFJE2u4bkYU
God Gave Me You – Blake Shelton: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGXHWqlH_dc
My Wish – Rascal Flatts : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zGB7IWklW3s
*Bonus Children's Devotional*
Written by JOYCE WAIRIMU
Since I live with so many brothers and sisters, there are many times I must have patience. Do you know what it means to have patience? Patience is going through something very hard, or just something very annoying, without getting angry or complaining. I must have patience oftentimes at dinner because there are so many of us eating and I am so hungry after a long day at school. I also much have patience when doing my homework or chores because I would rather be playing outside.
During these times, it helps me to remember how much patience God has with me. He could be angry with me so many times, but he isn't. He always loves me no matter what. He loves you no matter what you do too. He sent His Son, Jesus, to save you and me from our sins and gave us the Holy Spirit to live in us to be our guide and helper. Thanks be to God because without Him, I could not succeed.
"Being strengthened with all power according to His glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience."
This devotional was provided by Fruit the Lasts Ministry. They are a ministry that creates children's books based on the Fruits of the Spirit. To learn more about them and Fruit that Lasts, please visit their website. www.fruitthatlasts.com
This activity was provided by the Teacher Love Project - a Why Not Charleston community education initiative. The Teacher Love Project aims to provide love and encouragement to teachers that will elevate their wellness and care and therefore, enhance student achievement. We must care for those who care for our children - we must love each other because God loved us first.
"We love because he first loved us."
1 John 4:19
by Taraea L Griffith
Father over all these virtues I put on love which binds them all together in perfect unity. I do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone but I love my neighbor as I love myself. Because if I claim to be the light but hate my brothers/sisters I am still in the darkness. I choose to love. I love my brothers and sisters therefore I live in the light and there is nothing in me to make me stumble. Love comes from you Lord God and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God whoever does not love does not know God because God is love. Now Lord because of how you showed love sending your one and only Son into the world that I may love through Him. So Lord as you love I love and you love is made complete in me.
1 John 4:7-12
1 John 2:9,10
Taraea L. Griffith lives in Charleston with her husband, children, and grandchildren. She is a poet and writer, and making an offering of her special gifts and talents as a Why Not Charleston 2020 contributor.